4 reasons we were able to love an abusive partner (...how to not feel regret)
Four key ideas that shed light on why we feel love towards an abusive partner: addiction to the drama cycle, grooming, love bombing, and gas
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Our writings (blog) on all topics relating to abusive relationships
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Craig Newman
May 18, 20233 min read
Is the Silent Treatment emotional abuse?... and what to do about it.
Insights into identifying and responding to silent treatment abuse.
Craig Newman
Mar 23, 20234 min read
Negging, the hurtful slights abusive partners can slip into conversation.
Negative comments used by abusers to manipualte and control.
Craig Newman
Mar 13, 20234 min read
Why Can't I Stop Thinking About or Contacting My Abusive Ex?
Essential reading for those escaping a toxic or abusive ex.
Craig Newman
Mar 13, 20235 min read
Co-Parenting with a Toxic Ex: A Psychologist's Guide to Navigating the Challenge
Psychologist advice on how to co-parent with a toxic / abusive ex & how to support own wellbeing at the same time.
Craig Newman
Mar 7, 20233 min read
Are you trapped? How to Spot Coercive Control and Break Free
Self-assessment for coercive control and signposting what to do next.
Craig Newman
Feb 3, 20235 min read
What is coercive control & what to do if you have / are experiencing it.
Understanding what coercive control means and how to recover from it.
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